Who says your dating scene has to be restricted to neighborhood watering holes and local women? Now your dating adventures can scan the globe. Many single American men are breaking the cliché of marrying their high school sweethearts, instead choosing Tatyana over Maryanne. They’re combining vacations and dating and finding exotica experiences never known before.

This is not about mail order brides or Internet dating but rather getting eye-to-eye with incredible women from the newest dating hotspots in Asia, Latin America, Eastern Europe. Many of the Miss Universe finalists have hailed from these overlooked countries year after year. Well, they are overlooked no more. The secret is out. These women are fit, fashionable, and friendly and attracting international attention.

Global Dating Facts

This itinerant quest for love is taking thousands of North American men to other continents. This trend in global romance is leading to thousands of marriages every year. According to the International Marriage Broker’s Regulation Act of 2005, 10,000 men a year are saying “I do” to international sweethearts. U.S. immigration statistics indicate that the divorce rate of men who married foreign women is 20% — well below the American marriage statistics.

The Tour Experience

Today, travel organizations exist for the sole purpose of taking men on what is termed a “dating vacation.” The usual scenario takes place in a banquet facility or established night club in a foreign country of the man’s choosing. Once there, he and 25 other men will be introduced to 150 to 200 women at each of these socials.

This variation of speed dating, supported by interpreters, enables you to strike up a conversation and whittle your choices down to a Top 5. You then have two days in that city to go on exclusive one-on-one dates with each of your top picks before traveling to the next two cities where the entire process is repeated.

Myths Debunked

There are surprising reasons foreign women will prefer you over native men. Truly, it’s not the green card that these women are looking for; but a faithful man to make a family with. Many countries have populations where there are more women than men — in the millions! The men have no motivation to be faithful or even desire to settle down. Russia has twelve million more women than men and they are paying Russian couples with big cash incentives if they will marry!

These women are not uneducated villagers, but modern educated women looking for compatible mates and finding a small pool of native eligible bachelors. They are not trying to escape poverty or leave their country, necessarily, but the quest for a loyal man eludes them at home.

What to Expect:

The itinerary for a Dating Vacation goes as follows:

• Departure from a gateway city, usually New York or San Francisco.

• Guided coach transportation to all events.

• Three fully catered, invitation-only Socials with different women attending each one.

• Professional interpreter services during Socials and at the hotel, including 24 hour foreign and American hospitality — it’s white glove service all the way.

• Stays extend from 10 to 45 day in top-rated international hotels.

I can personally attest that global dating vacations work, having gone on numerous ones. I dated dozens of women on four continents before I met and married my Ukrainian beauty.

Meeting members of the opposite sex in Japan is usually not a complicated process, as more often than not the nature of the job, whether it be a businessman or English instructor, will bring you into contact with Japanese in the workplace who would like to get to know you better outside of the office or school. English instructors in particular have an advantage in regard to being able meet Japanese, as many students will let you know indirectly if they are interested in establishing a relationship beyond the classroom, and depending on the school’s policy toward dating students it’s quite easy to meet at a later date for dinner or a drink. For those who don’t want to mix business with romance, one of the best alternatives to meeting Japanese are the many salsa schools that have recently become popular in Japan. Women in these classes usually out number the men, and the lively atmosphere makes it relatively easy to meet someone looking for a dance partner. Yoga classes are also gaining popularity in Japan for both men and women, and are another possibility for meeting people who share the same interests.

For those looking for a more mainstream approach, the large number of gaijin bars that are frequented by both Japanese women and men hoping to meet foreigners are one of the most popular choices, but keep in mind there are usually more foreigners than Japanese present, and the competition can often be fierce. Another method of bringing Japanese and foreigners together are “International Parties” that are often advertised in magazines and newspapers. For a set fee of approximately 5,000 yen you’re able to attend a prearranged party in a restaurant or lounge where you have an opportunity to mingle with others interested in cultural exchange. In a similar venue are international hiking clubs that are now a popular form of meeting people, as most day hikes in the countryside are arranged with an equal number of men and women in mind. Sport clubs still appeal to many people who hope to meet others between workout sets, and the recent influx of Starbucks coffee shops in Japan are usually packed with Japanese women and men who are alone and receptive to conversation.

It’s difficult to discuss cross cultural differences without making generalizations that may or may not be accurate as each case is different, but for the most part Japanese are usually approachable in a social setting even if they appear to be a bit shy or reticent at first meeting. Foreigners who speak Japanese well are obviously going to have an advantage over those whose language skills are limited, and many relationships in Japan fall to the wayside eventually because of this lack of communication. Though mutual attraction is sometimes enough to keep a couple together, those looking long term usually have a better chance of success if one or both partners can speak the other’s native language well. As is the case in most Asian countries, age difference between men and women in Japan is not looked upon as an issue, and you often see couples together whose presence would no doubt turn heads in other parts of the world.

The Japanese view of sex is also quite different from that of the west, and they usually approach it with a more relaxed attitude, as can be witnessed by the large number of “Love Hotels” found in all major cities of Japan which provide a temporary haven for couples in need of privacy. This cavalier attitude can also sometimes be confusing for foreigners, who after becoming infatuated after the first or second date will suddenly find their email and phone messages going unanswered. Though definitely not pleasant for the ego, once it’s understood the Japanese are uncomfortable with direct confrontation and this is their way of letting you and themselves off the hook, it’s usually a bit easier to comprehend and accept. This approach often pertains to long term relationships as well, and there have been many foreigners who after years of being in a relationship suddenly found themselves in the cold for no apparent reason and with no explanation forthcoming. Society’s view of international relationships in Japan seems to be that of resigned acceptance, but don’t be surprised if there is resistance on the part of many Japanese parents in regard to their son or daughter marrying a foreigner. Although this attitude has gradually begun to change over the years, most traditional Japanese still want their children to marry Japanese.